So my friend Coach tipped me about a great place called PeppermintBlue where you can get complete avatars and outfits for both men and women for 0l! However those freebies will stay only until the 1st of May so you better get there quick!
Granted a lot of the stuff there is not really my style and more oriented to get new players started I did manage to find some gems for me and my man alt.
By the way those awesome couple poses and smileys are from VPoses, you can get the four poses for only 100l.
Non free stuff:
Man's hair Sadistic Hacker